Well, the e-mail I tried to send to this member was kicked back by hotmail, as I thought it would be. If you are ijperes@hotmail.com, or know who this is let me know. The forum sends e-mails "masquerading" as me so it's likely some of these mail services look at any relayed mail as spam. My e-mail address needs to be added to the "approved" list, or whatever.
But, ijperes@hotmail.com needs to get this taken care of as I don't see much I can do other than delete the account.