I have also been a member of a large motorcycle club. but quite often the club politics can get in the way of any fun there might have been had.
The club I was a member of was a 'general' club, but there were factions within and was quite often 'clicky' (derived from - clique) and difficult to get into and as such had a high turnover in new members.
The factions varied, there were those that like to sit in a field all weekend and get drunk/high, whilst listening to a second rate band. Those that liked to foster an image of being 'bad ass', whether it be by the way they presented themselves or the way they rode. There were Harley people, race rep people, Old Brit iron types, general assholes and me, on a BMW K100.
The club finally self destructed, as there were two personalities, both of which felt that they had the answer about what the club should be doing, where it should be going, where/when it should meet, etc. This led to an irrevocable split is the club. Not into two factions but into three. 10% of the members backed one side, 10% backed the other. The other 80% walked away in disgust.
I did a few trips with them, across to France a couple of times, down to the coast, and a couple of bike shows, over a 2 or 3 year period.
Frankly, I do not like riding in large groups. Quite often it can be very dangerous, as you only need one inattentive or irresponsible muppet to create mayhem, or at the very least cause friction within the group.
Then you are forced to introduce rigid rules of the road for the group. The larger the group, the less likely it is that you are going to get from the ride, what you want. Whether you are being forced to ride slower than you want to, make more fuel stops for the idiot with the less than 100 mile tank range, or the bloke that comes out for a ride on an ill prepared machine, with no fuel.
The list goes on. I was one of the 80% that walked away in disgust. If I wanted 'office politics' I can get that from work. I just wanted to enjoy my bike and chat with like minded people - which I found were few and far between. This is what make these forums a great thing!
I also now only ride in very small groups, with people I know well, who have a similar outlook. On long rides, when we get to 4, we split into two independent pairs with similar bikes and riding styles - A buddy-buddy system.....And we have a destination and a time to meet at. We may do the whole ride as a foursome, we may not, for whatever reason.
We talk at the destination and do not use intercoms or radios whilst we ride. We just text each other if there is an issue. Everyone is responsible for navigation, whether you lead or not.
Friends of friends are welcome. If they fit in, they get asked to come again. If they don't......well
Cheers for reading.
Rev. Light