Tricky,
Here is another more local forum in the UK. It is not R65 specific, but is BMW (although definately not affiliated with the UK BMW Owners Club), and many of the owners are currently or have been airhead riders.
They meet regularly all over the uk and organise trips. Although they normally specify a place to meet and you all just turn up, rather than ride around in big groups. All very low key, easy going and friendly.
I am off to France next month and hope to meet some of them there. I am going to the Somme to look up my great grandfather who is buried somewhere there (I know the locality and time of death, but he does not have a marked grave). Most of the rest are going to Ypres. But we will meet up for a Coffee at some point.
And there are some in the members in the London area.
http://gabfesters.co.uk/index.php?In the mean time the best thing you can do, is to take a picture of your bike and show it to us.
Then keep bothering us with anything that is bothering you.
You will find people here are helpful and constructive.
Cheers
Steve H