Troy,
Things are happening very fast lately. I don't know what it is. Things seem the same, but not the same.
I'm so sorry about Sadie. I know she is a very special being, especially to you.
I wish your wife the best. I'm sure it will turn out well, but it will take time and healing.
My thoughts are with you all. You are definitley part of this forum, so you'd better show up now and then and let us know how things are going.
Take care of yourself through all this.