After much abuse (aka landing on the valve cover a few times), one of my valve covers is warped. For a while, I was doubling the stock gaskets, but then figured I could save some money / time and use a silicone gasket set. I've been using the silicone gaskets for about 11k miles, maybe 4 or 5 years.
Well, now the non warped cover leaks, and after some investigation this is what my gasket looks like:

I suspect I've over torqued the valve cover nuts to cause this, but has anyone else experienced this?
I don't enjoy an oil covered boot, should I go back with stock gaskets or have another try with the silicone?