Bob
I am desperately disappointed to hear that as ever since I shifted to my free can of Aero Shell hydraulic oil I have not had rubber bits "eaten".
Mind you using a rubber bumper as a stopper is poor engineering, they could have just as easily designed a system to progressively increase damping rate as the fork reached the limit of its travel, reaching full hydraulic lock just before mechanical end of travel.
BMW are a funny mob in my opinion, sometimes they do things in an amazingly complex way to achieve very marginal increases in reliability and on other occasions they take quick-fix solutions that condemn the owner to feed the machine "consumables". A good example of complexity is the throttle arrangements, and a good example of "quick-fix" is the stamped steel top bridge they used right up to the R65 when they finally designed and fitted a proper top triple clamp.
The general R65 fork design continued into the early K series and they just fiddled with it, never actually fixing the problems, then threw their corporate hands up and went to the Telelever. Go figure.