Guys.
You do realize that the actual dimensional difference between "loose as a goose" and "so tight you can barely move the feeler" is not going to be enough to make any difference don't you?
For what it is worth. the "correct" level of drag is a clearance that is such that you can both draw the feeler gauge through and "push" it back (assuming for the moment we are using the thinnest gauge in your set), without distorting or "bunching" the gauge.
I generally do not use feelers to set valve clearance anyway. I won't give the whole game away, but follow this logic and your problems are behind you.
Firstly, what we need to measure is the running clearance of the rocker to valve. As our wonderful machines age you are not really able to accurately measure this running clearance with a feeler gauge as the end of the rocker wears a slight hollow where it constantly hits the valve head. As the gauge is much wider than the contact area you are not measuring the actual clearance anyway.
Now you can rush out and have the tappets refaced, but the hardening on them is very thin, so budget on getting that redone as well - the price should be about 50% of the price of a new rocker, but this is needless expense, my own view is that you only have that job done when you fit new valves and then you get the lash-pad built up by weld (not ground down) and then deep hardened.
The clearance is adjusted by a screw and locknut. The thread is a known number of turns per millimetre. The amount of clearance required is a fraction of a turn, as in a quarter og a turn, 1/2 a turn or by way of visualising a "clock". If you have a rocker ready to set clearance, all you need do is wind it in until it gently contacts the valve, call the position of the slot "12 o'clock" then wind back to 10 to 12, 1/4 to 12, half past etc to accurately and repeatable set the actually running clearance to whatever is required.
Let's say that our valve adjuster has a 1:00mm thread pitch (I am embarrassed as I no longer recall what standard pitch on a BMW adjuster is, I know mine are 1mm, but I made them myself years ago and can't recall if that was stock or whether stock is 1.25mm, in any event the principle remains the same).
So, if the clearance required is .25mm, or 1/4mm, then to achieve that clearance involved rotating the adjuster 1/4 turn, or taking our imaginary 12:00 start point - rotate back to 11:45.
.15mm equals a rotation of 54 degrees - near enough to 60degrees in my book as makes no difference or "10 to 12" in round numbers.
There you go, I just set your valve clearances without a feeler gauge, and probably set them more accurately than you can with a feeler,