OK - managed to take some pictures of the numbers on the very dirty pair of spare R65 heads which I have awaiting cleanup/refurb for installation on my bike.
Right side head number casting is "1335234"

LEft side head casting is "1335235"

Now, perhaps the simplest way to tell (maybe?) the large valve heads (1981->)from the small valve heads (1978-1980) is to look at the underside of the exhaust port - as far as I know, none of the bikes had pulse air injection of any manner prior to late 1980 and the introduction of the flat black airbox. I didn't think that the earlier heads would have had any sort of port machined into them beneath the exhaust port for fitment of the pulse air plumbing, which didn't exist then, correct? So, if the head has a hole/port in this location (or is plugged by a bolt as shown here as when someone disconnects the pulse air system) it should be a large valve head, no?

Looking at the A&S online fiche, they all seem to have the same part numbers, and the drawings all seem to show the head with the pulse air connector&port, so I am thinking that BMW may have just obsoleted the small valve head altogether and only stocks/sells the large valve heads now - it would make sense, I guess. What seems really odd is why the list price for the left head shows as $485 while the price for the right head is $809? Hmmm.