You can remove the metal terminal ends from the connectors .
If you look at the connector when it's disconnected, there is a small slot next to the slot for the metal terminal end .
Push the terminal end up into the plastic connector, this will dis engage the small spring tab from the connector body .
In this small slot, place a thin piece of metal, to depress the spring tab, then pull the wire out of the backside of the connector .
You can do the same thing on the round pin connectors, but you need something like a round wire butt splice to place over the round pin, press down until the spring tab is disengaged, then pull the wire out of the connector body .