I'd install the paper gasket if it doesn't have one, that should put you in about the middle of the range .
From the looks of the metal washer, I'd be inclined to say that the previous filter change, wasn't done correctly .
Looks like the o-ring is deformed on one side, not all the way around .
I'd go with an observation, that these parts were installed at an angle somehow .
To make yourself feel better, take it apart in 500-1,000 miles, and see what it looks like then .