What model year is your R65 ? I believe that BMW has a different type/style seal for the pre- 85 models that had a thin, tapered edge for sealing.
From 85-on, they used a soft/ pliable material called PTFE that was more elastic, sorta like the fork slider seals. It is important, before you go further,
that you have the proper type of seal in hand. Maybe the newer, post '85 seals will actually work on all bikes, I do not know myself but I bet someone here does.
They (BMW) also wants you to be sure to check the depth of the existing seal before removing it, so that you can put the new seal in to the same depth.
you don't want the new seal to rub against the flywheel (pre-81 models) or the flywheel mounting ring (81 and after)
P.S. If you have the "old" thick black Clymer manual, look in Chapter 5, Page 203, illustration #10 - does this look familiar ?