This is what I was talking about when I referred to my bike as a "paint shaker"
ENGINE VIBRATION
The famous R65 engine vibration peaks at about 4500rpm.
The solutions are:
1. Replace forward engine mount spacers (between engine and frame) with rubber spacers. These can be had for $1.50 from a BMW dealer who carries /2 parts (bore out the hole though); or $60 from Luftmeiser with some metal reinforcement. This last is known as the "Luftmeiser vibration fix." When using the rubber spacers, you can no longer torque down the engine mount nuts, so instead you need to double-nut them so they won't vibrate loose.
Advantages: Some say the rubber spacers (/2 or Luftmeiser) absorb vibration and makes a significant difference in the bike's smoothness.
Disadvantages: Some say handling under hard riding is compromised; the already flexy frame flexes more (after all, you can't torque the nut on the engine mount stud!). I've heard several accounts of frames cracking, possibly from not having the support it needs.
DO NOT LOSE your stock metal spacers; not all dealers stock them and they seem to be hard to get. If your dealer can't find them on the microfiche, tell them to look under "footpeg."
2. Get used to it. Many people eventually don't even notice it (I don't at all anymore). I noticed little vibration reduction with rubber spacers, but noticed a fairly substantial negative impact on handling. "Boxer wobble" when the bike was loaded happened sooner and annoyed me far more than the vibration.
Personally I prefer the stock metal spacers, after a trip where the (loaded) bike wobbled so badly I couldn't go faster than 70mph.
Thom