OK here is the rub. I started to notice the dreaded valve recession at 70,000 miles. So I called up Nathan at Boxerworks and dutifully had my heads worked on. Nathan and Dean replaced the valves the guides the springs but not, to my surprise, the seats. They were aparently just fine and were cut to fit the new valves. The exhaust valves were aparently "sharp enough to shave by" Now since 29,000 miles this bike has been spending much of its time in the 4000-5000 rpm range out on the highway which is really hard on BMW valves. Airhead exhaust valves just can't take the beating.
Nathan said the heads are good for another 200,000 miles as is and I'm counting on that.
So I guess that is why they call it "Valve" recession and not "seat" recession. Now I'm not saying that you can't burn a seat. In fact I suspect with the latter airhead leaner carburation and emission controls may make this more likely. But if you are one with your tuning (timing, valves, Carbs) then I think you can avoid damaging your seats. Something like the Colortune will help keep you in the center of the normal range away from the lean end. Prophalatics like Marvel Mystery Oil (I use 2oz per 5 gals at every re-fill) and the fuel catalist from England (?) will help but nothing will protect your seats if you are running too lean for an extended period of time.
My R65 now runs purrrfectly. And athough I have not replaced the crankcase breather (yet) I did put an extra washer on top of the reed disk rather than use the secondary clip position (which looks too far down) and the motor is not puking as much oil on my left foot.
Or perhaps the rings are finally getting seated?

(I'm using .006" intake and .008" exhaust - .008" and .010 is for the BSA's - too many numbers.......)