I must say, Jon, you have one of the most "focused" collection of bikes that I have ever seen!
All 650's and within 2 years of each other! It was in 1980 that I bought my 1979 R65, as a leftover.
About your exhaust, well, I've never had it happen. These days I feel lucky if I can get them off!
As long as you are working in this area, have you seen the
tip I put in the Tech Tip section on cleaning up the threads with grinding compound and oil? (I have not had the pleasure, yet, myself...)
That may be something you might want to try, and then clean them up REAL well, (per the instructions) and no doubt you are using anti-seize compound on assembly.
** And don't tip your bike over tightening the nuts! **
No, I am happy to report this is NOT a AMHIK.

But I've scared myself!