After getting my sump pan welded to fix a couple of cracks from bottoming out off road (damn should've seen that corner!), I used a new OEM gasket and Hylomar blue sealant, as suggested by the Clymer manual. Although I didn't check if the sump pan was warped, it has not leaked for two years.
Not sure if you've already tried the hylomar blue as I recall reading it was originally used as an aviation sealant but it's not very expensive. The torque setting for the sump bolts is low - only 9Nm.