Take out the fork top plug, assemble 2 or 3 longish 1/2" or 3/8" extensions with a 13mm socket on the end. Have associate turn the hex bolt whilst you hold the ratchet handle.
Very occasionally your damper rod will spoil this party by unscrewing at the top instead of letting the hex bolt go at the bottom. This is where an air wrench is handy, put spring back in, re-insert form top plug, apply air wrench to hex bolt.
In the absence of an air wrench I have done the following - buy a sleeve nut that fits the top of the damper rod and a length of threaded rod sufficiently long to enable you to wind the sleeve nut onto the damper rod, squirt petrol at the top of the damper rod to flush out oil, coat sleeve nut with Loctite RED - wind sleeve nut onto damper rod. Wait till loctite sets up and then have another go, if this fails, remove forms from bike and take to bike shop or engineering works and have them apply air wrench.
When you put the damper rods back together, use Loctite Green to secure the top (damper piston) to the rod. Don't take fright, although Loctite green is a very strong threadlock, it gives in pretty easily to a little bit of heat wjhen you do need to take it apart.