montmill - I don't recall the year of your R65, but some general tips I/we've learned about this fork maintenance task:
1. While the soft metal "crush" or "wave" washers can fairly often be reused, they are supposed to be replaced with new ones, and they are inexpensive to order along with the seals. These washers are on the drain bolts on the back of the sliders and there are also similar (but different size) washers used on the allen bolts in the bottom of the sliders. I've reused these washers numerous times, but sometimes they decided that they don't quite want to hold oil anymore. They usually make this decision while you are out exploring a twisty back road and dump fork oil onto your front brake rotors just when you might need some front wheel braking power. Also, note how far the tubes are inserted into the upper triple clamp before you remove them - you can put a mark with a felt pen or something on each to help get you back to close to the right spot and even/equal on both sides when reassembling.
2. The small 10mm drain bolts on the back of the sliders thread into soft alloy - DO NOT TORQUE THEM very tight. The manuals state approx 10 ft-lbs, I think, which I think we'd all agree is an absolute upper limit. It is VERY easy to strip the threads on these buggers, so use a small wrench and use your "delicate" touch when doing this.
3. When reassembling - and sometimes when disassembling the slider from the tube one has to tighten/loosen and allen-bolt through the bottom of the sliders that screws up into the damper in the slider. Sometimes one gets lucky, but sometimes one needs to get a looooong extension for a socket wrench to also reach down in from the top of fork tube to hold the bolt on top of the damper and keep things from turning inside the assembly - otherwise you might think that the lower allen bolt has stripped or not mating, but in fact the whole inner mechanism is turning.
4. When you remove the top cap and or nut in the top of the fork tube, you need to press down against the tube's spring about an inch or so to gain access to the spring wire "clip" ring that is in a grrove in the top of the tube and which retains the assembly. A small screwdriver or needle nose pliers can be used to pry out the spring - be carefuly not to gouge up the inside of the fork tube and SLOOWLY release the pressure from the spring so you don't get any parts popping up into your face. This can be done by one person, but it is what is often called a "3-handed job", so if you have someone to assist you, it can go much easier.
5. When you put the fork tubes back together and have them mounted in the triple clamps, I will put the fender brace, fender, wheel and axle on but leave the bolts/nuts for the fender, brace and axle pinch bolts a bit loose. I'll then push down on the handlebars and let it bounce back up
and repeat this a couple times to set the axle and sliders into their natural alignment before final tightening of all the fasteners. This ideally enables you to get everything tightened up properly in proper alignment, so as to avoid undue stiction and allow smooth, unstressed action of the suspension.
This is a maintenance task that you can do and save yourself some $$$ over going to a shop. Just be methodical and take your time and you'll do fine. IF you get into a jam (but you won't !) there are plenty here who can help.