any thoughts on how the non r65 cluster fits into this puzzle?
Speedometer - no problem.
Tachometer - look at the leading edge of the instruments, down below, and see if it has a place to put a tach cable with threads for a retaining ring (just like the speedometer). If that is what you have, you will never get it to work with your R65 engine. The older engines had a cable take-off at the bottom-left side of the timing cover. It probably drove off the camshaft.
The various lights were hooked up to the R65's wiring harness as best as they could manage, I expect. It wouldn't be real hard, but it would make a mess of something.
If you want a working tachometer, you will need to replace what you have.
BMW has one that is identical to yours, but electronic. I suppose you could just replace the tach side. It's been a long time since I've seen the inside of one of those clusters.
Or, if you don't mind going hi-tech, you could get one of these digital clusters like a couple of the guys here have done. That will give you a tachometer, I believe. (and a bunch of other goodies).