I just did this with a friend's R90/6.
As soon as you put a load on the system it would die. Â (i.e. Not crank).
I isolated it to a bad hot wire between the diode board and the starter relay (not the solinoid). Â Th R65 is a bit different than the 1976 R90/6 though...
So start at the battery and trace the hot lead (Battery voltage  13.5 volts)from the battery to the starter solinoid and then from the red wire from the starter solinoid to the starter relay.  The starter relay sends current through the black wire back to the starter solinoid to energize the starter.  Make sure there is also 13.5 volts at the ignition switch red wire.  Thats the heavy lifting part.
What makes the starter relay work is current from the ignition switch green wires. Â One of these green wires run up to the emergency stop switch and from there to the start switch. Â The output from the starter switch is green and white. It run straight back to the starter relay. Â When you press the start switch, you should be reading 13.5 volts at the green and white wire at the starter relay. Â It needs a ground though. The starter relay gets its ground though the brown and yellow wires. Â It has two ways to get to ground. Â The brown and yellow at the starter relay will connect to ground through either 1) the neutral switch or 2) the clutch switch.
So you can check for battery voltage on the supply side of the starter relay or check for grounds (continuity with the frame) on the output side of the starter relay (brown and yellow wires) by activating the cluct handle or putting the bike in neutral. Â Make sure that both grounds work.
Good luck.
BTW this whole dicussion was sussed by looking at Diagram 'L' for BMW motorcycles 1981 to 1984 R65.
If you want one of these really cool color diagrams I think you can email him at r75.7@mindspring.com or go to Prospero's Garage at
www.slash5.com. Â
I got mine from somebody here at bmwR65.org but I forget who....