Just an update. After having dinner, I returned to the bike and reinstalled the battery (I am on the road). It started right up!!!!!
The battery appears to be between 5 and 6 years old (I know, near the end of it’s useful life, but it is an OEM marked battery). The lights and warning like came on with no problem, and appeared to be correct. I was so desperate I tried to get a new starter relay from the auto parts shop where I had it tested. Not in stock!
As a side question I have been having problems with the cables attached to the battery I use to trickle charge the battery and run m phone while riding. The 15 amp fuse in the positive side of the cable blows at the drop of a hat. Could it be from the proximity to the motor and the heat? Would love to know. Any and all ideas appreciate.
Thanks to all.